What does it REALLY take to get closer to your adult daughter?

As in…being more in touch, sharing more of her life with you, and no longer feeling that tension between you?

Maybe you've tried some of the things that you thought you needed to do to get there. 

Like.... 

Really trying to listen better - but then not knowing the “right” thing to say in response to her.

Really trying to “keep your lips sealed” - even though the silencing of yourself can feel totally unfair and resentment tends to build inside your chest.

Really trying hard to respect her boundaries - even though her boundaries feel unreasonable and only increase the distance you feel.

Really trying not to piss her off (enter egg shells and minefields you are constantly navigating).

Most of the mothers I talk to read books about “mothering adult daughters” and think all they need to do is keep their mouth shut.

But that’s no way to be in relationship!

That doesn’t give your relationship a sense of authenticity or real meaning! That doesn’t make you feel like you matter in the relationship! And that certainly doesn’t make you or your daughter feel any closer.

This is why I created this workshop.

I knew I needed to reach out to the mothers who are being left behind by a culture that values independence + self-actualization (a beautiful thing, indeed) but isn’t recognizing that mothers of previous generations don’t understand where they fit in their daughter’s newfound life.

Women who came up in the world during a very different time and who need help on understanding what their daughters are really asking from them.

But I have to be honest with you.

This isn't some superficial workshop.

This is an education.

For all of us.

And I go deep. Because nothing I do is superficial.

I offer you a path to understanding the rifts between women in your family and the tension that shows up in your mother/daughter relationship now.

To see your daughter’s frustration (and your own) as born out of generations of women who were expected to put the needs of others before themselves.

Here’s the break down of each day in the workshop!!

DAY 1: WHY IT’S SO HARD

• The pervasiveness of “mother blaming” and its impact on all women.

• Why it’s so difficult to hear our adult daughters.

• How you and your daughter may be competing for the same need.

• What you need in order to stay open to your daughter’s point of view.

• How to recognize your own emotional needs - and how they show up the relationship.

• How to support yourself in this process.

DAY 2: THE REAL CULPRIT OF MOTHER/DAUGHTER CONFLICT

• A compassionate viewpoint as to why your relationship has gotten to this point.

• The real culprit of your mother/daughter conflict (+ the enormous cost this had on women).

• Seeing your own mother + grandmother through a more compassionate + cultural lens.

• The Flow of Nurture and how it starts to flow backward.

• Understanding the egg shells and the minefields.

• How your daughter is carving out a new path for women.

DAY 3: WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER NEEDS MOST FROM YOU

• Where you belong in your daughter's life and how to step into this new role.

• How this new role will be easier on you than the current dynamic

• Why your relationship may have been close at one point, but now is strained.

• How daughters feel loved in relationship to their mothers.

• What it means to really "listen" and "hear" your daughter.

• The most impactful thing you can do right now to ease the tensions between you.

• How to shift the Flow of Nurture so it flows in her direction.

DAY 4: THE LOST LANGUAGE OF CONNECTION

• The lost language of connection that your daughter needs you to speak - a language that will transform your relationship.

• The exact words you can use to respond to her when she expresses her feelings.

• How to eradicate the tension of the "egg shells" and "minefields."

• What responsibility your daughter DOES have to the relationship.

• Ways of asking for what you need and the boundaries you also have.

• How you don't have to show up silent or invisible in the relationship and can also be authentic.

I know you would give anything for a tension-free relationship.

To feel closer to her.

To feel like you have a real place in her life and that she likes having you there.

I literally cannot wait to help you reconnect with your daughter.

I hope you dive in for this FREE deep-dive training - where I help you understand the minefields and egg shells, offer you a compassionate understanding of how you got there, and to give you the PERSPECTIVE and SKILLS to turn it all around.

SIGN UP BELOW and you get immediate access to the workshop replays. (I will be recording Day 4 and posting it September 9th!)