Society tells us that we shouldn’t be our daughter’s best friends.

That our desire to be close to her is bordering on “co-dependent.”

That we should anticipate her being distant with us in the teen years.

And that we need to yield to peers and independence rather than keep her close.

You are wanting to do intensive, focused work on getting more clear about what is coming up in your relationships - primarily with your daughter.

You want to understand how to strengthen your relationship with your daughter. Your conversations tend to devolve into conflict. Her emotions tend to rule the house.